But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, Matthew 5:44 NKJV https://bible.com/bible/114/mat.5.44.NKJV.
Once we can master the above verse and implement it in our lives, then we will understand the freedom that God extends to us through Jesus Christ his son. Now I don’t claim to have apprehended it all but I do let these scriptures guide the course of my day to day living. When you pay other with the same coin that they pay you, ask yourself this question, what separates you from them? Would someone be wrong to say you are exactly as they are. It took me a while to grasp this but when I did I realized that it released me of the burden of holding a grudge, been bitter and even thinking of new ways to be spiteful. It freed me from all these things and I was able to go about my day happier and stress free. These are Julien’s thoughts and what’s on his mind.